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		<title>Bipolar Disorder Management Secret&#8230;.. an answer (not THE answer, but an answer!)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s often hard for people with bipolar disorder to know what is reasonable and what is unacceptable. If you’re born with a certain kind of brain- it makes you say and do things that are normal to you. For example, people with bipolar disorder get stressed a lot more easily than the general population. They [...]


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		<title>Bipolar Family and Partner Coaching</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I live in Portland, Oregon in the US. I work with family members and partners over the phone with my coaching business. I also work with family members and partners of people with bipolar disorder in person here in Oregon.
My goal is to help those in crisis learn more about the illness and how they [...]


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		<title>Bipolar Disorder: Relationships and Respect: Reader Question</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is a reader question from my blog on respect in relationships:  
Hey Julie!
Here&#8217;s a terrible question.  What if the person who is not treating you with love and respect is your husband of 16 years?  My friends comment on how he treats me.  He&#8217;s not a complete ogre &#8211; just mostly.  But I&#8217;m afraid [...]


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		<title>Bipolar Supporter: My husband can&#8217;t sleep &#8211; Bipolarhappens.com podcast:</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is a question from Liz.
Her partner has bipolar disorder and recently got out of the hospital. She asks an interesting question- as a partner of someone with the illness, where does help end and needing the person to take care of themselves on their own begin? It’s surely a fine line. I read the [...]


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		<itunes:subtitle>Here is a question from Liz.

Her partner has bipolar disorder and recently got out of the hospital. She asks an interesting question- as a partner ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Here is a question from Liz.

Her partner has bipolar disorder and recently got out of the hospital. She asks an interesting question- as a partner of someone with the illness, where does help end and needing the person to take care of themselves on their own begin? Itrsquo;s surely a fine line. I read the question and answer it on the podcast below.

Hi Julie,

I just want to say thank you for having this site and writing your books. My husband was just diagnosed with Bipolar disorder in December after a very scary manic episode where he was on the roof of a McDonalds 45 minutes from our house.

I have learned a lot about bipolar disorder through your book, Loving someone with bipolar disorder and he has just to really begun to read Take charge of Bipolar disorder.

He is on medication and was on sick leave from his job for 6 months and has just returned last week on a light duty schedule. We have a long way to go. As you know, there are bad days and good days. One of our biggest problems is when it is time to go to sleep at night. He cannot go to sleep unless I am in bed with him. We seem to go through the same ritual every night. He goes to bed much earlier than me because he has to get up much earlier for work. He sits on the side of the bed and says, "this canrsquo;t be happening to me or I hate feeling this way. After about 10-15 minutes, he then lays down and puts his sleep machine on (sleep apnea) and falls asleep within 5-10 minutes. It is very frustrating for both of us. Any suggestions.

Hi Liz,

I like to answer reader questions on a podcast because itrsquo;s just so much more personal when I say in my own voice- I have been there, my ex who has bipolarnbsp;one has been there, most of the readers and their family members have too! 

This illness is frustrating, but it is treatable.

You can listen to the audio below for my answers to your question.

Julie

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		<description><![CDATA[A big bipolar disorder treatment secret… .
Surround yourself with people who love and respect you. It’s that simple. I’ve been around people who say they care about me and that they want to be with me- but in reality they didn’t love and respect me. It’s all about them.
I don’t want people like that in [...]


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		<title>Why are my moods all over the place? Hmmm .. could it be&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bipolar Disorder? 
Ha. ha. ha. 
I haven’t been stable for days. It’s up and down all day long. You would think that after 15 years I would at least be used to it. I’m not- I’m resigned to it and I definitely know how to deal with it- but I’ll never get used to it. [...]


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