Do Not Give Up. Do Not Give In! Get Up! Get Out! Get it Done!

Holy – what words can I use here that will not offend anyone! Holy guacamole. Holy heck. H E Double Toothpicks as we used to say when I went to grade school in the south.

This sucks. The Coronavirus isolation simply sucks for those of us who need human contact to better manage our moods.

If you are struggling, you’re normal. I am struggling and I have a good management plan in place. I am thinking of what it’s like for people newly diagnosed with bipolar or those who have OCD or high anxiety at the best of times!

These are not good times for any of us with mental health disorders, so let’s do something about it today.

If you are isolating, make a call. I [ Read More ]

Bipolar? Let’s Get Out of Bed During the Coronavirus

Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder: Strategies for Partners ❤️

Partner of a person with bipolar disorder or schizoaffective disorder? Please join me on The Stable Bed. This is a group for partners and is based off the ideas in all of my books with a specific focus on Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder. 📘Loving was the first book on the market to speak to a partner of a person with a mental health disorder. It has sold over 400,000copies! Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder will help you better understand the illness and will also help you see that management is possible. The image below is an excerpt from the book. It shows the practical advice included in the book. Chapter Six teaches you to create a What Works and What Doesn’t Work list for each [ Read More ]

Bipolar and the Holidays

Are you ready for Thanksgiving if you’re celebrating the holiday? Here are a few tips: 1️⃣📙 Read the trigger chapters in Take Charge and Loving and then read the Bipolar Conversation chapters. My books are living things! Each time you read them you learn something new- it’s impossible to take in the concept of trigger management and avoiding the Bipolar Conversation on just one reading. We can read and practice and write about it and then read and practice some more. This is a life long process!

2️⃣🐧 Say no when needed and use this article as a guideline:

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What is the Difference between Sadness, Grief and Bipolar Depression?

What is the difference between #bipolar #depression and sadness and grief? This is an important distinction as it is one reason that therapy rarely works for bipolar disorder or #schizoaffective disorder unless the therapist is trained in symptom management. ( I love training therapists on bipolar as they can be such an important part of our treatment.) Sadness and grief are natural human emotions that are attached to a noticeable event. My beloved kitty died last week. I felt and still feel deep sadness and grief. It comes and goes and is directly attached to the loss of my beautiful kitty Bibi. I can pinpoint when and where it started and why. It is not confusing. It is painful, but understandable. My sadness and grief do not spill over [ Read More ]

Can You Tell I’m Psychotic by Looking at my Picture?

Julie A. Fast Mild Psychosis 2018

Do I look ‘normal’ to you? Of course I do. My illness is internal. My face looks fine. I’m not #manic, so my eyes look fine. My skin is ok. My face is a little red due to medications, but overall you would never know that I’m dealing with mild #psychotic #paranoia today. Everything in my life is going well. Everything. Years of hard work to reach my dreams are finally paying off and I can say that life is good. And yet, I’m sitting here almost crying from the psychosis that simply won’t leave me alone. My psychosis is usually paranoia. Paranoia is a delusion. A delusion is a false belief that tells me lies that feel real. That is the best way to [ Read More ]