Please make a decision for me!
When I have trouble focusing, I’ve learned to ask others to make decisions for me. I’ve trained the people in my life to just go ahead with what they want to do and I will follow along. What do you want for dinner? I don’t care- you choose. What movie do you want to see? Let me know some choices and I’ll give you my choices. I let others drive, plan parties and do what they want- on the days that I’m having trouble making decisions.
On the days that I’m fine, I make my own decisions- but when the depression and ADHD are here, I say- I don’t care what I do- just help me do something!
It works. I’m also a much more relaxed person around my friends and they appreciate that.
Julie

