How Does Scrolling Through Social Media Affect the Bipolar Mood?

My next project comes out in 2021. I’m revising one of my books and adding a social media chapter. I never could have imagined that working on this book would coincide with the majority of the world staying at home and spending so much time online.

This is a great time to examine how social media actually affects the mood.

If scrolling and watching YouTube videos all day makes a person feel better, then keep on scrolling!

But if the person is like myself, the horrible, often out of control scrolling and video watching simply leads to more OCD and sleepless nights. I find that it deeply affects my thoughts about myself and is rarely good for the #bipolar.

The new section of the book will spend a lot of time talking about the fact that social media is not real. And yesterday I saw a picture comparison that I think is possibly the best illustration of this in the entire world.

The picture on the left is Kylie Jenner without make up taken a couple of days ago. The picture on the right is an image from her Instagram around the same time.

She has the right to do what she wants. It’s her life. It’s her career. She’s incredibly successful and I often study her online process.

The problem I have is the duplicity in the images that use filters and excessive amounts of make up and how this affects young people.

But, as always a good friend of mine Tara Rolstad gave me another perspective. She said, “At the same time that this is happening, there are also tens of thousands if not hundreds of thousands of videos on Instagram that show the make up process and what people look like before. So maybe this is balancing things!”

May-be!

What I do know is that managing my social media intake is as important to my bipolar disorder management as medications.

Julie

Do I Have Anxiety?

Anxiety is common in bipolar, but will always be attached to mania and/or depression symptoms. It helps to know if you have anxiety when you’re not in a mood swing. If you do, the anxiety is separate from bipolar and needs to be addressed separately. The good news? Anxiety responds well to natural treatments. 
Anxiety is very common in people with bipolar, but it will always be attached to either a depression, mania or mixed mania episode. (Mixed mania is also called dysphoric mania.)  This means you will NOT have anxiety if the bipolar mood swing is not there as well.
This can all change if you experience a stressful event in life, especially if the event is unexpected and has nothing to do with your own actions or choices.
Anxiety can enter into your life at any age even if you’ve never had it separately from your bipolar disorder symptoms in the past.
During a world crisis,  anxiety can show up in anyone! Those of us with bipolar need to be extra careful when experiencing anxiety causing events as anxiety can then affect our bipolar.
I know! We rarely get a break!
The following is a simple check list to help you determine if anxiety is high in your life right now and if you need help for anxiety that is separate from your bipolar symptom management plan.
1. You are not noticeably depressed or manic.
2. You have thoughts such as, This is never going to end. I’m going to be stuck in this loop forever and I’m going to lose my mind if this happens. Life is so out of control and I don’t think I can handle what is going on at all.  What is happening to me! I have never been this stressed in my life! 
3. This is usually accompanied by noticeable breathing problems, usually shortness of breath or the inability to take a breath. It can also feel like chest pains and you might wonder if you’re having a heart attack.  The ribs can have sharp pains as well.
4. Along with 2 and 3, you will also find yourself scared to do behaviors that you normally do with ease such as going outside, talking with people on the phone or finding the positive side of a situation. Anxiety is all encompassing and fear is one of the main symptoms that keeps one from getting on with life.
These are just a few of anxiety’s many symptoms. If you have all of the above and feel really, really scared and out of breath, this is a panic attack.
Some common causes of non bipolar anxiety: 
– Head injuries, even mild concussions can increase anxiety.
– Overuse of caffeine.
– High THC cannabis marijuana.
– Energy drinks that include amnio acids such as taurine.
– A very stressful event that leads to anxiety. If the event is traumatic,  the resulting anxiety is called PTSD.
– A reaction to a medication.
What to do if the anxiety is really bad right now: 
1. Praise yourself for reading about the symptoms and doing something about them. Self awareness is the only way to finally get help for anxiety.
2. Practice even breathing. It’s the #1 treatment for anxiety, including intense panic attacks. The goal is to have the balance of oxygen and carbon dioxide remain steady. Breathe in for the same count that you breathe out and keep increasing the time between breaths. Pranayama yoga breathing videos can really help when the anxiety is flaring.
3. Use Cognitive Behavior Techniques (CBT). They really work with anxiety. You can talk yourself out of some pretty out of control and scary thoughts once you know that anxiety is the cause of what you’re going through.
4. Remove as much of the trigger as possible. During world events for example, I often go an entire day without looking at any social media. It helps immeasurably. Anxiety can turn into OCD type scrolling if left too long, so I make sure to remove any part of a trigger that’s in my control.
Anxiety responds extremely well to exercise that requires balanced breathing, talking yourself down from the out of control thoughts and ultimately removing as much of the trigger you are experiencing as possible.
In 2012, I had a biking accident that resulted in a serious head injury. A lasting effect of the injury was a strong anxiety disorder that is very separate from my bipolar disorder and psychotic disorder. The head injury didn’t affect my bipolar, but it created anxiety.  I now use the ideas in my bipolar and depression books to help myself manage the often overwhelming anxiety.
We can handle anything. We are strong people who happen to have really, really difficult brains. Knowing that what you are going through has a name: ANXIETY, can help you find natural relief from anxiety’s very life altering symptoms.
Julie

Sleep Management Tips for People with Bipolar Disorder

Sleep is nature’s medicine for bipolar. It’s the #1 way to manage this rotten illness without side effects! Going to sleep on the same day you woke up can change your life. If you start this process today, you can fell better and be on a more regular sleep routine within a few months. No, it’s not easy! Nothing is easy when it comes to bipolar, but ask yourself this- do I want to rely on too many prescription medications or do I want to manage this illness as naturally as possibly using free and safe methods and then use less meds for what is left? That is what I choose!

9 Tips to Help Sleep With Bipolar

This article from HealthCentral rocks. I know I wrote it, but I still have to remind myself how to keep my sleep in order. I have bipolar. It’s not like it goes anywhere simply because I write an article about it! We are in this together. Let’s use SLEEP to manage bipolar and stop the over reliance on outside drugs and treatments that often have side effects. Yes, I DO believe in the use of meds for bipolar, but I believe in doing what I can on my own first!

From the article: Bipolar disorder responds well to a sleep plan that respects the body’s circadian rhythm. Learning to prevent mood swings by making good “sleep hygiene” choices is an inexpensive and natural way to prevent mania and depression. Sleep changes are not always easy in our very busy world, but please know that making even a few of the changes discussed here can reduce the need for certain medications and ultimately prevent mood swings.

You have so much more control over this illness than you know. You have the ability to regulate moods through sleep hygiene. Weird term, but it’s the truth!

Julie

 

How to Stop Obsessive Social Media Use if you Have Bipolar Disorder or OCD

Why I Record Bipolar Disorder Videos in My Car

Why I record videos in my car and why you should do what works for you!

Darn it.

Bipolar affects our work ability. Let’s remove the embarrassment of not being like everyone else and just do the work we can do.

My work ability is what it is. I can only do my best. You can only do your best. It is enough.

Julie

 

Do Not Give Up. Do Not Give In! Get Up! Get Out! Get it Done!

Holy – what words can I use here that will not offend anyone! Holy guacamole. Holy heck.  H E Double Toothpicks as we used to say when I went to grade school in the south.

This sucks. The Coronavirus isolation simply sucks for those of us who need human contact to better manage our moods.

If you are struggling, you’re normal. I am struggling and I have a good management plan in place. I am thinking of what it’s like for people newly diagnosed with bipolar or those who have OCD or high anxiety at the best of times!

These are not good times for any of us with mental health disorders, so let’s do something about it today.

If you are isolating, make a call. I don’t care who you call, just call someone. I have to force myself to do this as well. Depression makes me isolate.

CRAP!

If you’re sleeping is off, let’s get it back on track. NOW. The #1 way to make yourself more ill and this means being sick when the darn isolation is finally over is to get off a regular sleep schedule. You can get back on track now so that you won’t be in HELL in a few months. Please. If there is one thing you do during quarantine to help yourself stay table, it is managing sleep. We can do this.

If you have Get it Done When You’re Depressed, now is a GREAT time to get it out and choose the strategies that best fit your situation. I’ve been using it since day one of coronavirus quarantine.

If you don’t have it, the Kindle version can be there in a few minutes. Help is on the way!

The main goal is to get out of bed and get on with life every day. This is the foundation for surviving this world crisis.

Julie